Fear sucks


Hello Reader,

If I could tell you anything about learning how to speak English, it would be this:

Fear never really goes away.

Fear of making a mistake.

Fear of forgetting what to say in English right in the middle of big presentation, or an important conversation.

Fear of grammar flops.

Fear of looking and feeling like a fool in front of someone else.

Yep. It never really goes away.

This is especially true if you're an introvert like me.

Even in English, my first language, I am usually in a strange dance with fear. How about you?

Sometimes that dance leads me to staying quiet, and not connecting with the people around me.

Other times, I manage to lead and be the one calling the shots.

And here's what I've noticed: while fear doesn't really go away, it can get quieter. The more you use your English, the quieter it gets. (Not silent. Just quieter.)

And the more I let fear be what leads, the louder I see it become.

What do you think? Does this seem true to you, too?

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Thank you for reading! Have a great weekend!

Aaron

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